I'm going to try not to come off as a bridezilla. Two weeks ago my FI and I asked my uncle to sing our unity candle song at our wedding. I email the Music Director to let her know. At my church (I'm Catholic but now rethinking that), my music had to be approved to be played and it has to be live music, no CDs. Four months ago, we meet with the Music Director at the church and she approved every song except one (Someone to Love by Queen). My FI and I were okay with that. She, the music director, said if we heard it on the radio then its a no go. Okay. She also asked if any of the songs (minus the unity candle song) were going to be sung. We said no, we want all instrumental music.
Fast forward to yesterday. I received this four paragraph email explain the rite of marriage in a Catholic Church and how the ceremony isnt about my FI and I uniting under God but it's about God and Jesus. And how none of the music is church apporeate. All of the music she approved 4 months ago she has now said I need to find other music. So here was my music list.
Prelude: "Panis Angelicus" (O God Of Life) performed by Josh Groban, "Hymne à l'amour" ("Hymn to Love") by Josh Groban, “Hallelujah” by Jeff Beckley Processional:“Ave Maria”, “Canon in D”, “Jesu, Joy of Man’s Desiring”. Candle Lighting Song: “When You Say You Love Me” By Josh Groban. Recessional: “Trumpet Voluntary” – Handel. Postlude: “Autumn” by Vivaldi
She said kepts saying in email the Unity candle song would be great at the reception. Never in her email did she explain what was wrong with the music we chose. I freak out and call my FI at work. He was shocked to hear that Ave Maria, Canon in D and Jesu, Joy of Man's Desiring and Trumpet Voluntary were not good enough. Even though those songs were on a list she gave us when we meet four months prior.
None of the songs by Josh Groban have ANY sexual content in them (I've read the lyrics). And the Jeff Beckley song, has a beautiful melody to it and my FI and I aways thought the lyrics were talking about the events in the Bible and no matter how much we screw up God will be there for us.
So, should I take this up with the Priest that is to marry my FI and I?