Facts:
~Saturday evening wedding
~Wedding is a year from now
~Fiance has turn-tables and 1 of our themes was going to be records/music
~We agree with my (the bride's parents) to have a classy, elegant, fun and memorable kind of wedding
The problem:
---- my mom and possibly father think DJ's mean rave music or radio-like dj's not classy and no one at classy/elegant weddings has a DJ ----
My Fiance & I had this suggestion/solution for my parents:
Lets have the band during the pictures right after ceremony and while everyone is eating and for an hour after.
Then have a DJ for our friends that will be staying for the later fun.
Unfortunately I just asked my mom for a little favor and was kind of desperate and embarrassed to ask her in the first and she figured what a great time to play: LETS MAKE A DEAL!
I will do the favor if you just have a BAND and NO DJ!
WOW!
You can imagine how that went. I, of course, did NOT make a Deal with her. And tried to reason and explain to her the low blow and not-so-nice position she was putting me in and that I would have to talk to my Fiance, etc.
Luckily, I have a wonderful brother who can talk sense to her and reason with her.
So... she helped out and we agreed to talk further about this and make a decision that will be reasonable later on.
PS. I'm sure many of you have heard this one before but this is a scary 1st for me and I have year!!! MOTHER TO DAUGHTER (BRIDE): "THIS IS MY WEDDING TOO"
PLEASE IF YOU HAVE ANY ADVICE... OR AGREE WITH MY MOTHER OR ME. I could really use some help!
Thanks!!