In November I made arrangements with my DJ for him to do the ceremony and reception for my wedding. he is going to charge $500 for both ceremony and reception for the whole night. the only problem is i can't get ahold of him to discuss a contract or a deposit. everytime i email him about getting together and going over details he seems to ignore me. I strongly believe that without a written agreement you have no vender, but this deal is too good to pass up. i'll have a hard time finding anyone else in my area without paying for 2.5 hours of travel. i'm starting to get nervous. how can i get my DJ on the same page? or should i start looking for another one?