My Fiance and I are having a hard time deciding whether or not we should get first look photos before the ceremony or wait until afterwards. He feels strongly about not seeing me before the ceremony, which I'm totally fine with. But, I would also be fine with a first look, so we wouldnt feel rushed with photos. Problem is, is that we are only having a 4 hour reception, including the cocktail hour. We really don't want to miss out on our own reception, since it will only be 4 hours..and not 4 hours with a cocktail hour (total 5hrs). Any thoughts or suggestions on what we should do?