I always have, even when I'm at my "perfect" weight, manageable hair, nice outfit etc. I also don't like the look of formal posed pics and while I do have picture of my kids (just in case they aren't crazy like me) we have very few formal, posed shots.
I understand that I'm not the only VIP at our wedding, my FI doesn't mind pics and I know that he will want some photographic memories of our day but it isn't high on the list of priorities.for him.
We will have a DIY photobooth/favor/guestbook (thank you vistaprint goddess) set up. My sister and various stepmom's, MIL's, Dads and stepdadswill do some day of and getting ready pics. Our kids are our wedding party, we may do a first dance but no garter or boquet toss, no cake cutting, no toasts.
Can I ask a few people to take pics for us or should I try and find a photographer that will understand my craziness? We have a 14 year old neighbor that makes amazing videos and takes photography classes, I'd be happy with her and she'd have a great time and make $. But really? A 14 year old? Is that too far?
I'm bracing myself for the answers and I do understand I'm in the minority here...