So I would like to start our photography before the wedding in order to get family pictures and wedding party shots over with so that after the ceremony there will be minimal time wasted on pictures and more time having fun with our guests. I don't want to miss any wonderful part of this day I'm working so hard to plan. My sister did it so that she and her husband had a private "first look" of seeing eachother before pictures started. My fh does NOT like this idea, he thinks we should see eachother for the first time when I am walking down the aisle. Has anyone dont this or have an inside take on how it goes? I want to know what you and your husbands thought of it, if you're already married, or your perspective if you know someone else who did!