A little dilemma I've stumbled across..
I'm the bride and I was considering planing my own bachelorette party.
My MOH/sister lives 500 miles away so the only thing she can really do is create the event on facebook,another BM lives 800 miles away so I don't expect her to do anything since she really can't,and my other 2 BMs don't like each other and haven't spoken to one another in a year.
I asked my sister if I should just go ahead and plan my own bachelorette party and tell her what to write on the facebook event and she said yes.I have no problem doing that but I really wanted my 2 local bridesmaids to get together and talk about what to do for the bachelorette party but I'm afraid if I don't say anything,nothing would happen.
I would really love some type of "last night out" event before I move and get married so I would be too afraid to not say anything and nothing happen.
Should I just plan my own bachelorette party,say something to the 2 local BMs about talking with one another to plan something,or not say anything at all and hope they get together and plan something?
I know a bachelorette party isn't a "given" with any bride,but it is one thing I've really wanted.