I posted the other day about questions for a bachelorette party and got a good response. I am a BM in a wedding, pregnant and not attending the bachelorette party since it will be an all night drinking affair. The bride knows and is fine with it. I am going to send some lingerie for the bride (we were asked to bring this on the invitation), but the more I think about it the more I think I should contribute some money too. The other two bridesmaids live near each other and are close and planned the party, I am not close to them, but I still want to help out with the cost. It will be a low key event, starting at a friends house for food and drinks (they are asking everyone to bring a food contribution) then off to some clubs for a night of drinking.
I was thinking about sending $50.00 to the MOH.
Do you think that is a good amount? I don't want to put the other two bridesmaids out just because I cannot attend. Thanks!!