My mom is pretty much a momzilla and if we dont set boundaries she would be taking over. Fine if she was paying, but she isnt. She is throwing me a shower with my MOH at her home (tea party theme) in May (July wedding here..) and keeps talking about the bachlorette party! She even went as far to suggest having a stripper at her house. I made the mistake of sending her a posting of a cute idea for bachlorette where your bridal party goes and paints a nude male- with refreshments, etc of course. So now I think she thinks she is on board.
Is the party supposed to happen the night of the shower??? How do I keep my mom out!?