I offered to throw my future SIL a shower for our side of the family (groom’s side). She was rather dumbfounded at the suggestion. She feels since both families live in the same town it wouldn’t make sense. She also thinks one shower (60+ people) will be a union of the two families. I personally think it will be a typical ‘factory’ style event our society has come accustom to. Herd them in, feed them, herd them out and most importantly take their gift.
Not fan if you can't tell…
I would rather throw a more intimate shower where our guest actually have time to talk to my FSIL and make sure everyone feels special and valued. I want them to know we appreciate them taking the time to attend and more importantly spending their hard earn money on a gift.
My FSIL listed off about a half dozen friends of hers who all had one shower and stated that only time anyone of her friends had multiple showers was due to distance b/t families.
So…out of curiosity is this the new norm?