My fiance's parents recently threw out the idea of throwing the two of us an engagement party. Usually, I would have no qualms about this, but I feel like it might be inappropriate given that we have been engaged for around 2 years, and so our engagement is not exactly "news" to anyone we would think about inviting. I feel that because of this, this might be perceived in a negative light, as though we were just trying to find an excuse to have a lot of people give us congratulatory gifts (which we are not, in any way!) On the other hand, though, we have already planned a really informal rehearsal dinner, so I know that his parents may take this as a bigger gathering that they could contribute more to. Advice??