Hey ladies, i've been working on my guest list for my rehersal dinner. We have room for up to 50 people and my wedding party is pretty small, 10 people total including me, fh, ring bearer, and flower girl. I've looked pretty far back at older post and couldn't find this question so if its a repeat, i'm sorry. My question is who all gets invited? i know wedding party, spouses, parents, grandparents, but more specifically. If i have my god-father and god-son (father and son pair) do the gifts do I invite their whole family, wife and two other children? Also if my FH's cousin is single and doing a reading, does she bring a guest? My sister is single and my MOH, does she get a quest? How about the servers at the wedding? They are used to doing weddings/masses, so they know the drill, but they are close family friends (were flowergirls in my sisters wedding) and their parents are most likely doing a reading at the wedding. Last but not least, out of town guest? From what I hear its a personal preference type thing but any thoughts would be appriciated. We don't have that many OOT guest. We don't have that many so it wouldn't be a big deal to add them on, just curious what other brides were doing.