The bride has not technically named any of us bridesmaids as her MOH because she doesn't want to hurt anyones feelings, whatever. One bridesmaid is doing the bridal shower and I'm doing the bachelorette party.
I've always been to bach parties where it was around 10 girls and we all go out to a bar or dinner and have a good night. My bride wants a limo and to rent a bar out downtown. She also has invited over 50 people. Who's supposed to pay for this? Both my kids are in the wedding as well so I have enough between dresses, tuxes, and accessories that I can't afford to spend anymore.
So my question is what exactly do I do?