Okay to send my own invites?

radcmr

I'm 30 days away from my wedding. My Maid of Honor and I have decided on when the bachelorette party will take place and where and it's only 2 and a half weeks away. The only problem is that no invitations have gone out. She is super busy with her hectic work schedule and I don't want to stick her with yet another task of doing the invitations. Do you think it would be okay if I just sent them myself or would this be tacky? I was thinking of just doing an e-vite instead of mailing paper invites. Any input is greatly appreciated.

kristenrmu22

Maybe put the e-vite together for you MOH and then send it to her to send to your guests. I wouldn't let your guests know that you sent it as it will come across as you are hosting this for yourself. 

hlq2011

Ditto PP.  But honestly, I did an e-vite for my FI's 30th, and actually putting it together took five minutes.  The hardest part was getting the email addresses of the guests.

Send her an email with the guests.  The invite shouldn't come from you; it'll look like you're hosting your own shower.

Also, I don't know if this is a friends shower, but if you've got Grandma and Great-Aunt Sally on the guest list, think hard on the e-vite thing.

heinz11msw

I would just ask your MOH if she can kindly do it this week because people need to know in order to take off work and stuff.

If she still doesn't after a couple days just send them out yourself but with her info on it as the rsvp. No one will know you sent them out anyways unless you tell them or put your rsvp info on there.