So our wedding party are putting together a girls weekend getaway and a guys weekend getaway. They will be about 2 hours from where we live and they will both be on different weekends. So everyone thinks it's so weird that were doing them on separate weekends. I got into it with his brothers girlfriend of 13 years. She kept saying it's stupid that we can't meet up with the guys and and I told her why it defeats the purpose of a girls weekend. Then she told me that we are practically married anyways! We live together is why she said that. Then I told her it's not like were trying to get laid! We are just having a fun weekend with friends. Then she said maybe someone will get laid!!! I was livid. Sorry it's so long but I don't know what to do. We are content with what were doing and fully trust each other. Do I have to invite her or any of his sister in laws? I don't want my weekend ruined with Debbie downers or anyone who makes comments like that.