Stripper at the bachlorette party??

grk223

I am getting married this April, and am planning on having my bachlorette party the same month. Anywho, I want a stripper, a female stripper. I would be much more comfortable with a gorgeous woman than a man shaking his junk in my face. My soon to be husband is more than okay with me getting a female stripper but there's just one problem. One of his close friends used to be a stripper. Just to clarify she wasn't in a "good place" when she was stripper, and has now become very conservative and religious. I would feel so rude inviting her to my bachlorette party and having a stripper when she herself used to be one. I would also hate to just not invite her 'cause I want a stripper. I'm not sure what to do. 

PLEASE HELP

UPDATE 11/9/2011

I decided to not have a stripper. While I like the idea of getting all fun and crazy the absolute last thing I want to do is offend one of his best friends. She is more important to me than one night of parting. Thanks 

hlmauney

I think you'd need to make sure ALL of your guests would be comfortable with a stripper, male or female. Some people just aren't comfortable with that. If it's something you'd enjoy, maybe you and your fiance could go to a club together. Or with a different group of people.

Mae0606

I agree- strippers are something you are either comfortable with or not comfortable with. Even though you would like them, probably about half of the people you would invite would not be comfortable, let alone a conservative woman who used to strip at a seemingly low-point in her life. If you are set on having one, I believe you need to speak with all peple who are going to be invited and let them know one will be there so they have the choice to leave for that portion of the night- or have one earlier in the day and then go out with everything later on.