My MOH has told me she is going to have a bachelorette party for me a couple days before the wedding. She also says that it will be a group of our friends going out to dinner then to a bar, but she is not going to pay for their meals or drinks. Who is supposed to pay for this? I did not ask for one. I'm thrilled she wants to throw me one, but how tacky will the people invited think this is if they have to end up paying for their meal and drinks. Also how do I tell my friend if this is tacky?