Sorry - this is going to be a bit long.
My MOH just emailed me to ask for my input on where to have my shower/bachelorette - she wasn't sure. She also told me she was thinking of planning more than one of each and asked me what I thought about this.
Some background information:
1. Pretty much all the important women in my life live in 4 cities: A, B, C and D
1. My MOH and I grew up together in City A. My parents stil live in City A. I just moved back to City A this summer for a one-year work contract, and FI and I are getting married in City A. I don't have many friends left in City A - just my mom, one girlfriend and some family friends.
2. Until this summer, I had been living in City B for 4 years and City C for 3 years before that. All of my good friends live in either City B or City C.
3. MOH just moved this summer to a town just outside of City B. She is coming back to visit me in City A a couple of times before the wedding.
4. FI's entire family lives in City D. City D is kind of close to City B but very far away from Cities A/C. FMIL and FSIL would likely not be able to attend any pre-wedding party held in Cities A/C.
5. Most of the cities are pretty far apart: B and D are by far the closest and they are 5 hours apart by car.
I know I shouldn't be planning my own pre-wedding parties, but given that MOH asked for my help, should I give any suggestions? If so - what city? I literally have no idea. Also - what about MOH's suggestion of multiple parties? I definitely don't want to put a burden on her to plan more than one party, so maybe I should just keep silent on this point?
Thanks