So my BM's have decided to host a shower for me, which is really nice considering I told them I didn't need/want one. NOW, they can't manage to agree on anything, have decided they won't include me in planning, but a few continue to complain to me that they "think" it will be expensive. (No details set, no $ discussed thusfar). One MOH insists that a group gift should be purchased for me and won't come without a present, and the other MOH thinks her contributing to the shower is the gift she is giving.
I am FED up with the nonsense coming from all of them and have no clue how to approach the situation, I didn't even want the shower in the first place, but I do think it's nice of them to want to host one. I don't know what to say to the people that won't stop complaining about $$. And I'm trying to be sensitive to everyone (hence the thanks but no thanks shower request.....)
Anyone deal with anything similar/have any ideas for how to approach this other than ignore it all? - Thanks!!
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