So my best friend is getting married in august and her cousin is organising it. She's only 18, final year in school so a lot of stress and has never done anything like this and asked me to help out. I'm only a few years older and never been to or organised one either and I'm working abroad. She has a fab hotel booked for a really good deal for 2 nights but we don't know how to ask people for the deposit. It's for 20 people. We need transport to a place about 3 hours away and ideas for what to do. I'm thinking grafitti party some night (wear white and have messages written all over) but need a lot more ideas, preferably not too many neon pink feathery penis ones. We are at a lodd to know what to do, what's the norm etc. We are in Ireland so maybe etiquite is different? Also we don't want things to be too expensive, for example the hotel will be only $100/€125 for 2 nights and a dinner. Any help would be much appreciated