wording for bachelorette party/lingerie shower

texas1805

I'm needing some help with the wording for my sisters bachelorette party/lingerie shower.

The average age for the girls attending will be 20. This will be most of their first bachelorette party. Should I put that this is a lingerie shower  & bachelorette party or if I just leave her sizes is it just implied?

Also, need wording for dinner beforehand. My sister wants to invite about 10 extra people not part of the bridal party. Everyone will be come to my town to have the party. I’m giving them a place to stay the night but I can’t afford to feed everyone. How can I word it that we will have a Dutch dinner before meeting at my house if people want to join.

Is there a nice way of wording party starts at 7 but meeting for dinner beforehand...that im not paying for?

Should we just keep the dinner off the invitation and just have word of mouth?

Jager1219

I'd keep dinner off the invite & spread the news through word of mouth.  I would not assume it's a lingerie party if just sizes were on the invite.  And the girls being 20 probably wouldn't get it either.

texas1805

We are having cake & drinks after dinner...which everyone is invited to have. Everyone that is invited to the b-party is invited to the wedding. I was just not sure if I should mention the dinner before the party since I'm not paying for anyone but everyone is more than welcomed to join.