My MOH is putting together the b-party. It was originally just the bridal party. We are going to get a cabin in Tahoe for the weekend. Some partying, some board game and wine time. There is a girl I've worked with a few years that is a really good friend. Really, she should have been a BM. (I didn't ask b/c I alreayd have 6 due to FI's sisters wanting in; that's another story.) Anyways I asked this girl if she wanted to come and she said yes. I'm glad she's coming.
So... MOH told the girls how much $$ it would be, and this amount was meant to cover my share as well. (I told MOH I'm completely willing and able to pay my own share but she said no.) MOH asks me today if it might be wrong to have split up the costs evenly, given that this girl is the only one who is not a BM and should not have to pay part of my share.
What do you think?