I am trying to put together the list for my BP for my shower. Only problem is "close" family and friends is up to 70 ppl. This is because both FI and my parents are divorced and remarried. I know it would offend people if they weren't invited but the other ex-spouses family was. What to do!!?? Plus, my mom who is most important to me doesn't get along with my dads sisters. I feel like it would be easier if I just didn't invite them but then I want to invite my grandmother. Ahhh divorce!!