Give Present to Fiance at his Bachelor Party this weekend?

KevinAndKatie

So my fiance and all his friends are going to Atlantic City this weekend for his bachelor party.  They're doing the typical things, hitting the casinos and the clubs and staying over Saturday night.

I'm really excited for him and want him to know that I want  him to have a good time so I was wondering if anyone sent a gift a long with one of the guys for their groom?  I was thinking maybe a bottle of alcohol and some plastic shot glasses so they could enjoy that in the room on me...or a gift card to one of the hotel bars to buy their "first round".

I certainly don't want to spend a lot of money and don't know if he'd even care if I did something or not...Thoughts?

waltzingmatilda13

I think it's a nice gesture, but personally I wouldn't do it. He might just get a lot of flak or his friends might totally forget about it and never give it to him. Save your money for something just for him to give in private.

emilyec1

I agree.  Save it for a special moment that just the two of you can share and you can see the look on his face when he opens the gift.  Let his friends have the honor this time of treating him.  :)

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[QUOTE]I think it's a nice gesture, but personally I wouldn't do it. He might just get a lot of flak or his friends might totally forget about it and never give it to him. Save your money for something just for him to give in private.
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mandi921vh

I agree with PPs, save it for a special moment alone with your FI. 

EasleySalton

I think it sounds like a fun idea - plus it says that you're willing to help your man have a fun bachelor party!  Maybe enlist one of the guys in the party to help you pick out an alcohol or something so you know it's something they all would like.

Overall I think it also makes you look like an awesome future wife to his friends too!