Bachelorette party....

scrpio421

So my MOH asked what I want to do for my bachelorette party and I don't know!!! Some of my bridemaids are already giving her and my mother a hard time about costs of things. I'm afraid between them and my OOT girls, there will only be 3 of us that will go out. I don't know. I want to pick something that everyone will like. So just out of curiousity, what are you doing? What would your vote be for if you were a BM?

Aus10w

We are having my lingerie shower and bachelorette on the same night. we are doing a small get together at my MOH's house. We will do finger food and cocktails. Then we are going downtown and eating dinner and going dancing! Hope this helps! Set a budget - if you want a lingerie shower ask that guests spend no more that $___ (insert your comfortable price range). And you can also request that the ladies bring their favorite dish and just do a pot luck dinner and go out dancing. Save on money by having a fun evening of dinner and cocktails at someoens house!

cebrady89

I think dancing is your best bet. If you go out for drinks and dancing, your girls could pay for what they want. If they don't have much money to spend they would not be paying as much going out one night as they would going to a show or the spa. But all of those ideas are fun

Osterizer

We had a sex toy party and then went out for dinner and drinks.  Originally, my MOH wanted to plan an expensive night out, but my fear was the same as yours.  Tell your MOH to talk to some of the guests to get an idea as to what their prince range is and then go from there. 

cinderellasjc

My MOH must have friends in high places (LOL).  She got a suite (for 10) at Foxwoods Casino for a night.  We will be dancing the night away.
I think dancing is definately the way to go.  Especially if it is only a few close friends or family.  Makes it more intimate and memorable. 

froggatt.clare

I live in a city.  I can have a crazy night out in the city any night of the week.  What I don't have are my closest friends living near me (2 of my 6 bridesmaids live in my state).  I told my sister/MOH that all I want is a beach weekend with lots of lounging, a nice dinner, and perhaps some adult beverages afterwards.  Nothing fancy, crazy, or expensive.