One of my MOHs (I chose 2) is already asking about where I want to have the bach. party. Personally, being a student and it being midterms season I haven't put a lot of thought into any wedding stuff lately and def. not the bach. party. However, it came up that she thought only bridesmaids attend the bach party, but I have 5 more girls that I would want to be there, making it a total of 9 girls plus me. Is it really traditionally just the BMs at the party or can I ask to invite others as well? My wedding will be the first one I attend as an adult but she's been in 3 just this past summer so my first thought was she's probably right.
Side Note: I know both my MOHs are really excited to plan the bach party together but isn't it a little early?