I just found out that a "surprise" tea party shower is being planned by one of my BMs and it got me thinking about the two guest lists. I already gave a small list to another BM for my bachelorette.
Is there any etiquette against inviting people to the shower but not the B-Party? I'm not talking about older female relatives as much as female peers. The way I see it the B-Party is more VIP (since it will most likely result in some craziness that I only want a select few to see) and the shower is a little more open and tame.
Will it look gift grabby to invite friends who are my age to the shower and not the B-Party? Would you feel snubbed that you were excluded from the B-Party or would you just be happy to be included at the shower?
I have a feeling I'm going to be asked for a list very soon, so I want to have my ducks in a row.
Oh no we dropped the groom!! Planning Bio UPDATED