A group of my friends who are not a part of my bridal party want to throw me a bachelorette party and intentionally not invite my bridal party. It makes me feel strange and pulled in two directions. I want to know how to tell them and especially the organizer (who I've known since high school) how it makes me feel, but I don't know how to approach the topic.
I don't want them spending money on a party that I think is offensive to my closest friends but I don't want to offend them either. Help please!
Just for clarification too - my bridal party are beautiful good hearted people - there is no reason to have anything against them - these two groups of friends just don't know each other that well