Since when do people think it is manditory for all bridesmaids to go out to a night club for a bachelorette party? The MOH is planning an overnight stay at an expensive hotel and a night out at a night club. "Clubbing" is not my thing, and I just don't have the money for a hotel room. I am not friends with any of the bride's friends, which makes it even more uncomfortable for me. I already told them I would participate in the day activities they plan like mani and pedi and dinner together, but I am being pressured into it.
Is being part of the bridal party force me to do this stuff???