We are NOT having a wedding party. Great easy RD right. Well not exactly. MY FIs parents went through a messy messy divorce. The dad has been dating a woman for many years and has moved on. The mom hasn't and has nobody. She holds a serious bitter grudge and doesn't really know my parents.
What should we do about our RD.
Have everyone and sit uncomfortably well at dinner with the 3 sets of parents and us.
(PS 70% of our wedding list are out of state about 1 hour away- should we have them at the RD too since that is etiquette? and basically have two reception dinners?)