My maternal aunts want to host me a shower next spring/summer and we are already having issues about dates. My mom and her sisters want to have it on a Friday night because they think it takes up less of the weekend. I think it is a horrible idea and would much prefer it on a Saturday or Sunday afternoon especially because my groom's family and my dad's side of the family lives out of town! Plus, after a long work week, who wants to trek to the suburbs for shower! How do I resolve this issue without sounding like a bridezilla or for offending my aunts who are gracious enough to host the party?