I'm my MOH's MOH for her wedding in June, mine is in May. Her family in Pennsylvania is throwing her a bridal shower in April which I am unable to attend and her church is throwing her a bridal shower in May. Everything is being taken care of by other people and I feel like I am not doing enough, she has put a lot of input into my shower and helping me make decisions. I offer to help with anything and she said everyone has it all under control. Should I throw her another party? All friends and family have been invited to one of the other, I am thinking of throwing her a batchelorette party but I'm not sure when as I have a lot on my plate from my wedding and those expenses.