So I had my wedding shower this past weekend and I'm starting the Thank you cards. It was a more traditional "girls" shower but some of the guys came by after (FI, both dads, best man...) We've been together for 12 years and lived together for years... so we're both pretty close to eachothers families and friends. Almost all of the gifts were household gifts from our registry -- so the question is -- are the thank you cards from just me or from both of us??