Hi All! So long story short, we are living in NY (most of my family lives here) but we use to live in Florida and our wedding is in florida. So my MOH is here in NY and she as well as my mom will be hosting a shower up in NY, assuming mostly my family and friends. Friends that live in florida would like to host a shower for me down there. I am very thankful for both!! My FMIL lives in Florida and so does my parents. I am assuming my Florida friends as well as FMIL and some of her friends will be attending that one. What do I do about family members that do not live in either state? Do they get an invite to one of the showers? My fiance has 2 sister in laws tht live in a different state, do I invite them to the shower in Florida since thats where his mother will be attending? So confused! Dont want to leave anyone out but also dont want to inconvience people!