My bridal shower is next month, luckily i have all of my bridesmaids and family members helping out with it. I know im not suppose to do anything for it but i like planning and what not so i have some ideas being used at the shower. One thing i have a question on.. since there will be a decent amount of women attending, there are family members that dont get along with certain ones, co-workers- distant family... you think doing escort cards and seating people a good idea?... then i thought of just doing something for ONE table mother of the bride and ONE table mother of the groom so that they have "good seats" I know its something i dont need to worry about but its something i have focused on.