My sister (my MOH) is throwing me a shower, and my aunt told me she would love to throw me a shower. The people invited to the shower my sister is throwing will be all my close friends. My aunt mentioned that she could throw a couples shower, if I was interested in that. So, since she's family, I thought it would be a neat idea to have the couples shower be both of our families. I didn't even think about inviting my bridesmaids to the couples shower, since they aren't family. But..the more and more I'm reading on these boards, people are saying both mothers, sisters, grandparents, and the wedding party should be invited to all showers. The couples shower will be after my sister's shower. My sister will be inviting FI's mother and sister to that shower, but should my aunt send an invite to the rest of my bridesmaids for the couples shower, even though they aren't family??