One of my best friends lives in London and will be in Miami for a weekend early December to do a few things for her grad program, but will be free at night. I live in NY now, but my wedding and most BM are in Florida so I already know the party will be in Florida, my BMs just are waiting on me to pick which weekend is best (flight prices, slow work week so maybe I can leave early Friday, FI home to watch the dogs, etc). My friend really wants me to do it the weekend she is in town so she can be a part of it - but is that wayyyy too early? it will be about 4 months before my wedding - does it really matter? I feel like it is maybe too early - but I wont be able to afford to fly down and see her just for fun. Thanks!