I have a really big wedding party - 9 girls - 3 of whom are sisters of mine or my fiance. The problem is, I truly do not want to have a bachelorette party of any kind. I don't think all the girls will get along and I will feel a lot of pressure to make everyone happy. It is just a situation I'd rather avoid but a few of the bridesmaids are making me feel like I'm being selfish by not having one. We are all in our 30's so I didn't think this would be an issue. Thoughts? Do I need to do something?