Hi! So my MOH wants to throw me bachelorette party and bridal shower, which I am very excited for! I was wondering who gets invited to each one? I was thinking for bachelorette party just my friends, but for the bridal shower friends and family. Only problem is all of my fiances' family & my family lives out of state... we don't even know if they'll make it to the wedding. I was wondering if anyone had any advice? Do I go ahead and invite my aunt & cousins who I would love to have there but know they won't make it to the bridal shower or not?