Heres my issue...my best friend and her mom are wanting to throw me a Bachlorette Themed Party where I get goodies for the wedding night and whatnot. My mother is wanting to throw a more formal bridal shower, my issue is I have a small close group of friends that I've invited to the wedding due to the size of family coming and how many guests we can have total. How do I invite girls to both parties and expect gifts to both? That's just unrealistic.
I would feel awful if I were to invite friends that weren't invited to the wedding; feeling they'd think "we're not good enough to come to the wedding, but here let me get you a gift."
Ideas???