It turned into them verbally attacking me and they are not coming to the wedding, we are no longer welcome in their home. His sister sent him an email basically insinuating that this was all my idea and his mom said that I am using this as revenge. I will never be a part of their family because I don’t know what family is. They said they had it figured out they knew which credit card they were going to use. This just validates our decision even more they should not be using credit with the situation they are in. His sister’s last sentence of her email was I got to try on a pretty dress that everyone I have showed thinks I look beautiful and now no one will get to see me! Matt got so fed up he set them straight and told them it was his decision he is fed up with them acting like this they don’t have to like me but with everything I have tried to do for them short of driving them up here and never even got a thank you how dare they then call me unthoughtful and inconsiderate. He told them we want them at the wedding if they want to support us in our marriage but at this point we seem to be far past that so if they choose not to not to come he is okay with that and they can’t pretend to be angels because they have said some very hurtful things. Also they said we need to take his dads invite back to because he doesn’t want us getting married either. There was MUCH MUCH more said but it would take a long time to type it all out. I couldn’t sleep I feel horrible. This weekend is Matt’s bday and he already has all his gifts and I want to do something for him but I just don’t know what and I know this isn’t my fault but it is because of me and I am having trouble distinguishing the difference. I can’t even eat I am so sick to my stomach. I promise this will be the last thing about this I am going to try my best to just move on and let it be everything that needs to be said was said.