So I know everyone has asked some iteration of this, but I really don't know who to invite to our rehearsal dinner. We're having a small wedding (around 80ish people) which will end up being a destination wedding of sorts considering 95% of the guest list is from out of town. Of those coming to the wedding, 80% is all family members with handful of close friends and their guests. All family is from out of town... MIL thinks we need to invite all out of town guest to the RD, but then it will end up being basially a mini-reception.
Part of me wants me to keep it to the immediate family and wedding party, but then another part of me says they're family and they're here from out of town, so they should come! What do you guys think? Invite them all?! It seriously would end up being the everyone coming to the wedding since everyone is traveling for it. Feels like a bit much, but if MIL is paying then let her have what she wants?