My sister/maid of honour wants to throw me a bridal shower. I'm foregoing the bachelorette and engagement party because...well, I just don't want them! (I'm not a big party person.) I don't know much about what happens at showers...gifts and games I think. But I really hate to be the centre of attention. Can anyone recommend some things that happened at your bridal shower that you enjoyed? We're thinking of some kind of tea party (I found out later that the bride isn't supposed to plan any of this herself...whoops.) What kind of games did you play? Traditions I should know about? It will be for about 20 people.