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Bachelorette Party Invites

biancaperry18biancaperry18 member
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I know that it is not okay to invite people to the bridal shower that are not invited to the wedding but what about the bachelorette party?  There is a group of us girls that typically get together every summer and have a blow out night but some of these girls are just friends of my friends and thus friends through osmosis.  I have a great time with them but I am not close enough with them to invite them to my wedding (plus we are having a small wedding).  However I thought it might be a fun idea to combine my bachelorette party with our summer get together and just have a blast.  Is this tacky/rude?  Or is there a little more leeway with the bachelorette festivities.  Can I also mention that most of my female friends are mothers that live many states away so there is no way they'll be able to come to any pre-wedding events which leaves my guest list for the party a bit paltry.  So I guess I have two angles here, beefing up the guest list and making it a lot more fun.  Thoughts?
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Re: Bachelorette Party Invites

  • waltzingmatilda13waltzingmatilda13 member
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    It's still not okay. Anyone invited to any pre-wedding event needs to be invited to the wedding. 

    I would just keep the 2 events separate so as not to offend anyone or break and etiquette rules.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_pre-wedding-parties_bachelorette-party-invites-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:32Discussion:a495edd9-d075-499a-9e51-d944700f80eaPost:23b9cd60-5ff6-4036-a2de-f00150e9e732">Re: Bachelorette Party Invites</a>:
    [QUOTE]It's still not okay. Anyone invited to any pre-wedding event needs to be invited to the wedding.  <strong>I would just keep the 2 events separate so as not to offend anyone or break and etiquette rules</strong>.
    Posted by waltzingmatilda13[/QUOTE]
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  • biancaperry18biancaperry18 member
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    I told my MOH that it was bad etiquette to ask people that aren't invited to the wedding to the Bach party and she was like oh well I was talking to Ashley (her friend) about it and she said that even though she's not invited to the wedding she would love to be able to go the the bachelorette party.  SO  I'm only inviting friends and family that are invited to the wedding but as far as I'm concerned if somebody else wants to come, they can.  The more the merrier!
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