My future sister-in-law is getting married this year and is having three showers and a bridesmaid luncheon, I should also mention that I am a bridesmaid. I am invited to all four of these events and gifting etiquette has not been discussed so I feel that I should gift at each shower. However, I was told by the host of the bridesmaid luncheon that gifting wouldn't be necessary because this is when she gives us our gift.
My question is, If I am attending three showers and I am buying gifts for all three, do I also gift at the wedding?