I was wondering if it was standard for Bridesmaids to split the cost for the shower. Ive never been in a wedding before, and my sister told me that she didnt have to pay when she was in one. The MOH has told us we were going to split the cost & has not yet told us what the amt. will be & the shower will be in a little over a month. Clearly Im not going to be Cheapo McGee and not pay, but I was just wondering. Thanks