I'm trying to figure out if there is any way I can get someone to throw my FH a bachelor party, as it doesn't seem that his BM is planning anything.
The long version:
We are getting married July 17. I've already had my bachelorette party, and am having a bridal shower in a few weeks (there were unrelated to this issue reasons why MOH scheduled so early). My FH has been increasingly upset about why I get 2 parties and he doesn't get any. Though I know it's still a little early, I'm worried that maybe no one is planning him a bachelor party (especially if he is going to be upset about missing the experience). We are getting married near where I grew up, which is basically a destination wedding for everyone other than my parents and their friends, so no one is going to be there until the night before. So, my other concern is that the BM thinks they can just go out then, which is even more worrisome, not only as I don't want a hungover groom at our formal wedding, but also that there is NOTHING in the area there (it is literally in the mountains); other issue is that most of his friends, other than his BM, are where we live now (8hrs away) and I'm not sure how many are going to be able to make it to the wedding (and hence, last minute bachelor party, if one were going to take place).
I tried to send the BM's wife a casual message asking if BM needed names/contact info for friends, but didn't hear back from her. Is there anything else I can or should do? I feel like I really shouldn't do anything, but I'm so concerned that FH is going to be upset about it.
Anyone have any thoughts????