I'm no longer on TK for my own wedding, but am now the MOH in a friend's wedding. I'm hosting the bridal shower and am looking for some advice on the planning process. How much should I involve the bride in decisions beyond the guest list (i.e. picking out invitations, drinks, food, etc)? Do I just pick what I think she would like and is in my price range, or should I be giving her options and asking her preference?