I am a lucky girl in that my future in-laws are wonderful! My future mother in law offered to throw me a small intimate bridal shower here in Virginia. All my bridesmaids and closest friends are spread out all over the country, so it would be more for her friends and relatives like her sisters. I am 100% fine with that, as I'd love to meet everyone before our wedding! However, she mentioned making it a lingerie shower... which I am not comfortable with. So I mentioned that and she's fine with not doing that. She still says she wants to do something, but we dont know what. My FI and I don't need any typical shower gifts or wedding gifts.... we aren't even registering. Thus, I don't know what type of party to make it. The only thing I have thought of is a "Stock the Bar" engagement party for couples... but.... we don't really even need that. I don't know of a way to do a bridal shower like she wants.... b/c I don't need gifts. I'm fine with having a girls luncheon without gifts.... but she really wants to do something! She's so sweet! Any suggestions?