before i was even engaged my mom said she and her friend would love to throw me a shower when the time comes. i thought little of it and said okay. now that i actually am engaged I assumed my MOH would host it (she is my soon to be SIL). my mom still wants to throw one even though i told her my MOH should do it. i can't have 2 showers becuase that's kind of rude and i don't have enough guests for 2.
i haven't heard anything from my MOH regarding the shower (guests, theme, when, where, etc) which i'm surprised about. i told my mom and she said "well, just tell her i'm hosting but will need lots of help". is that what i should do or should i just approach my MOH and say something about her hosting?
*i should also mention that my FMIL is big on etiquette so she is probably expecting to help host with my FSIL.